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Post by tynged on Oct 31, 2010 23:44:02 GMT -6
Is it okay that I laughed first before being concerned? lol Too soon, too soon... for me, but actually I can sorta see now how it could be funny from the outside...
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Post by Baka Neko on Nov 1, 2010 1:15:17 GMT -6
Yeah, I figured it wasn't a laughing matter.
I wasn't laughing at your situation just to be clear.
I was laughing at the scene that you stepped out into.
Ex-girlfriend drinking tea, sitting on the couch, acting as if nothing is wrong - while the ex-boyfriend is smushed against the window, hitting it occasionally with a slightly mad/annoyed face - but despite the anger, the fact that his face was squished against the glass made for a really funny face instead...
That sorta thing. my mind sorta took off in a hilarious route instead of the scary one that I'm sure you yourself went through... and As I said, I'm sorry I laughed. I just found the situation between your roommate and her ex kinda funny.
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Post by AllyKatt on Nov 1, 2010 10:23:00 GMT -6
I'd better be getting a Big Bang Theory disc in the mail today, because I am OUT! This ... cannot be.
I totally have to buy the first 3 seasons, stat...
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Post by avyquinn on Nov 1, 2010 17:04:43 GMT -6
I know it's vague, and I don't really have much to expand on about it, but has anyone else realized they're tired of taking shit from people?
I used to be so much more of a no-bullshit hardass, and now I've realized I've gone soft. I think it's (only partially) due to my husband and his (sometimes excessively) forgiving ways. XD
I must endeavour to take less shit like I used to... There's GOT to be a happy medium between too soft and too hard. The trick is to find it, ne?
.... all I know is that I'm gonna snap at some point. XD
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Post by Baka Neko on Nov 1, 2010 17:30:07 GMT -6
I'm more of the "too forgiving" type and it's very annoying because some people assume that I'll just forgive them.
I really need to start being a little less forgiving, at least right away, so people will think twice.
It's so 'effing frustrating.
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Post by Kyashi on Nov 1, 2010 19:02:05 GMT -6
I'm forgiving of people so long as they learn from their mistakes, if they can. My mom is just hopeless at learning things, so she always gets forgiven. My dad is like this, too. Just being elderly means never learning anything anymore, I guess... Which is sad... Apologies are very nice, indeed, if I can get them, which is rare!
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Post by avyquinn on Nov 1, 2010 19:38:56 GMT -6
Well, there are three people that I will forgive without batting an eyelash. My mom, my husband (with very few exceptions) and my bestie.
I'm not stupid enough to let people screw me over twice, and even if I forgive, I'll never ever forget, nor will I forget that they were capable of doing it. That's really it for me. Most people get 1 strike, some 2, but usually never more than that.
When the stove is hot and I touch it, it only takes me one time to realize that 'f*^k that's hot!' XD
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Post by Kyashi on Nov 1, 2010 20:34:39 GMT -6
/\Yes, that is so true! Good analogy. I think there are certain types of people that I never completely trust after they've broken it with me.
But, anyway, my mother is treating me like sheeeeeet today, so I'm not so happy. She even started a really stupid fight with me about her computer that even my DAD told her not to talk about. That is amazing...
I'm just trying to understand why she's acting like this, and it might be because today was her first official day of retirement and she's probably having a tough time adjusting to this lifestyle. She really, really loved her job and now she's at home with us losers, so she's probably realizing that the glorious life of retirement sucks!
Hanging out at work is better than always being at home with me and my dad, that's for sure. Could've told her that, but she's too old to work that much anymore. Whatever.... I just hope she isn't really just mad at me about something else and redirecting her anger at me for stupid little things. I'll likely never find out 'cause she's very closed off about her emotions. VERY. *facepalm*
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Post by AllyKatt on Nov 9, 2010 18:40:53 GMT -6
no, ego with feet, i will not be accommodating you. not now, not any time soon - perhaps not ever.
trust me. try all you want, it isn't going to change anything.
ok, that's not true - it might extend the window of time in which i will *NOT* be giving you what you want...
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Post by avyquinn on Nov 10, 2010 17:39:07 GMT -6
WARNING! Bad language. XD
srsly.
am i really a loser? like... too much of one for the girl i fucking coddled two weekends ago to keep forgetting to return my shawl i left at her fucking hole in the wall after walking her drunk and belligerent ass all the way home???
ive reminded her once, she's reminded herself the rest of the times and she STILL can't remember.
tie a fucking string around your fucking finger.
i dont think she has any idea how much of a loser it makes me feel like that she cant remember something that simple when it comes to me.
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Post by Unger69 on Nov 10, 2010 17:58:42 GMT -6
*hugs Avy*
You're no loser.
Why must the background die on me before you log in!?!??!?!?!
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Post by avyquinn on Nov 10, 2010 18:34:35 GMT -6
Thanks, darling. <3
Background? Hmmmm?
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Post by Unger69 on Nov 10, 2010 20:29:36 GMT -6
Before you can view the forums it asks you to log in, unless you are permanentally logged in, I have a different background for it but now it's being lame and won't show.
Now to find something to replace it....
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Post by Kyashi on Nov 10, 2010 20:54:04 GMT -6
You're not a loser, avy! Just go over to her house and get your shawl. That's what I would do. It's a rare person who would go out of their way to return something like that, I think. Although, I probably would, since you might not have good transportation. But, it doesn't mean your friend doesn't care about you, though....
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Post by avyquinn on Nov 10, 2010 21:26:59 GMT -6
I just thought friends were ... oh... i dont know... thoughtful perhaps. XD
I would go over to get it, but i dont remember where she lives! lol Yes I walked my ass from her house to my own, but i cant remember anymore where she is. That and she insists on bringing it over. Which would be great if she actually did what she said she was gonna.
If I say ima do something, then I do it. Generally speaking. Esp if it involves other people's stuff.
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