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Post by Kyashi on Oct 16, 2010 14:34:39 GMT -6
Aww... I'm sorry, dyzz... That stinks. *hugs* A lot of people want kids and can't have them. I bet there's some sort of support group you and your husband could join! You should look into that, if you feel like talking to other people in your position. It's always nice to know you're not alone, that countless other people/couples are emotionally devastated over being childless, as well. I think you should also look at the bright side. You have a husband, a life companion, someone who totally loves you, is committed to you, and is there for you. You may not have the children to go with him, but you've got one thing that is very special. I'll probably never have even the husband/life companion, let alone the children, so remember you are so BLESSED!!! ;D (Someone else out there is always worse off than you... )
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Post by astrid on Oct 16, 2010 20:01:43 GMT -6
I'm so sorry Dyzzi I'm sure you know your options and I don't want to put salt into the wound that hurts already so bad. Good luck with everything. I'll cross my fingers for you. Btw I heard that sometimes trying too hard makes it all worse. *huggles*
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Post by dyzzispell on Oct 16, 2010 21:12:09 GMT -6
I know, someone always has it worse off. Unfortunately that doesn't make it hurt any less... And yes, I am very glad to have what I do. That's basically how I want to deal with this whole thing. I can't let the depression of what I don't have eat me up from the inside out. Instead of always looking forward to a time when "things will be different", I need to concentrate more on the here and now and what I DO have. And I am very sorry that some of you guys haven't found that special someone yet. But please don't count yourselves out of the game yet, either. You never know, things could change tomorrow. (But I certainly know myself, that that doesn't do anything to ease the pain today.) So since I've been asked - what made this week weird? Well, I spent the whole week sick (still am, though not that bad), had a death in the inlaws' family (not a direct relative, and not one we were close to), so we had to travel into NYC two nights for the wake with me being sick and all. That's where we got the news about the pregnancy. So I'm just feeling a little beat up and off my game. Plus, certain biological issues make it really difficult to deal with stuff this week - my emotions are held in check with tape and string - meaning the slightest of things could set me off. *sigh* Sometimes I really hate being a girl.
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 17, 2010 0:04:46 GMT -6
Usually, it makes me feel better knowing I'm not at the absolute bottom of a problem situation, so I thought it might help you feel better. SORRY! I really didn't mean to say that if it wasn't going to help you feel better, dyzzi!
I'm fine, really, with being perpetually single! I'm not marriageable, anyway, so really, I'm happier this way! I just thought you should see that you do have a great husband, and that is definitely something amazing that not everyone has. Even many married women do not have that, so you're very lucky.
I hope you feel better soon! Female biological problems pass, thankfully, and so does being sick. Just rest a lot and let your body repair itself... ;D
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Post by Baka Neko on Oct 17, 2010 1:46:14 GMT -6
I wish I could say more to cheer you up Dyzzi.
But I love you. and I really hope that things get better.
Everything must get worse, before it can get better.
:]
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 27, 2010 20:30:50 GMT -6
Iz depressed today 'cause MY Aizen seems to have been replaced with an Aizen-look-a-like, cheap knock-off villain character in Bleach manga! ICK... Although, I theorize that the guy really IS Aizen in disguise. It BETTER be, Kubo-sensei....
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Post by Unger69 on Oct 28, 2010 7:40:02 GMT -6
I'm really disliking this whole, lets have a concert, and two weeks later have another one with music you won't see until the first concert is over with.
Why?
I hate it. With a strong passion. We only have four practices until the actual concert. Three practices, if you wanna count today. And I can't make one of the concerts next week.
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Post by avyquinn on Oct 28, 2010 13:01:55 GMT -6
Iz depressed today 'cause MY Aizen seems to have been replaced with an Aizen-look-a-like, cheap knock-off villain character in Bleach manga! ICK... Although, I theorize that the guy really IS Aizen in disguise. It BETTER be, Kubo-sensei.... All your bishies are being violated!! ; ; (and not in that good way...)Ugh, Unger! I'm sorry to hear about your stress! >< I hope everything turns out well, and if it doesn't, I hope you can just say: f&*k it. XD
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Post by Unger69 on Oct 28, 2010 13:10:50 GMT -6
Eh. I'm pretty much over it.
Although, I almost passed out today. It was freaky. I haven't had that happen in a LONG time. Guess I'm gunna have to go to the doctor to figure out what's going on.
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Post by avyquinn on Oct 28, 2010 14:12:11 GMT -6
Although, I almost passed out today. It was freaky. I haven't had that happen in a LONG time. Guess I'm gunna have to go to the doctor to figure out what's going on. I'd say! GOO! Take care of you!! <3
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 28, 2010 22:28:58 GMT -6
Yeah, I hope you'll be okay, Unger! @avy: Yes, my bishies are getting all overhauled, and stuffs. I'm just sick of it. They were PERFECT before, so their creators decided to eff them up. Good idea, brainiacs!! *sarcasm, of course*
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Post by Unger69 on Oct 28, 2010 22:44:50 GMT -6
Mmm. That Rave Dante is looking yummy.
Oh crap, I need to vent.
Um. I still am pretty light headed from earlier today. But I expected that to happen.
And don't worry, if it gets worse I'm going to see a doctor...or hospital. Depending on the situation. ^^'
And why is there an Aizen lookalike? Dear goodness. I might have to catch up on Bleach tonight...
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 31, 2010 18:34:02 GMT -6
Mmm. That Rave Dante is looking yummy. Oh crap, I need to vent. Um. I still am pretty light headed from earlier today. But I expected that to happen. And don't worry, if it gets worse I'm going to see a doctor...or hospital. Depending on the situation. ^^' And why is there an Aizen lookalike? Dear goodness. I might have to catch up on Bleach tonight... Yes, Unger, do get a physician's help if the dizzy spells don't go away. I hope you'll be alright...*hug* And, Aizen has been usurped by a new sort of Aizen look-a-like Bleach villain. I have no idea where Kubo-sensei is going with this, but I hope he doesn't REALLY look like Aizen at all anymore. I'm angry about that. P.S. Rave Dante ftw.... ;D
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Post by tynged on Oct 31, 2010 22:34:10 GMT -6
Kinda been hiding in the bathroom the past hour as my roommate and her ex-boyfriend with benefits brawl it out. She got in a particularly incisive verbal stinger, and immediately afterwards I heard thumping and thudding and yelling, and was kind of afraid that he'd murdered her or something.
I came out because it'd been quiet for a long while, and then saw that my roomie's fine, holding a mug of tea and sitting on the couch... I sit at the computer table and then ex-b comes in through the window which is right beside the computer table. Apparently he'd hopped onto the balcony and threatened to jump, and all the thudding was the windowpane being slammed shut, and him hammering against the glass trying to get her attention. And it was quiet because he was hiding off to the side, hoping she'd think that he really did it, and she kept on paying studious attention to her tea.
Usually I'd ignore them because it's their business, or just privately laugh off antics like this, but DAMN it this morning I WAS FRIGGIN TERRIFIED and then FRIGGIN TERRIFIED SOME MORE. This is so bad for my blood pressure, I wish they'd break up already. Oh, wait.
...I should just move out, shouldn't I.
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Post by Baka Neko on Oct 31, 2010 23:06:13 GMT -6
tynged - Is it okay that I laughed first before being concerned? lol And yes, I think you should move out, or tell her to move out, or dump the guy for good. That sorta thing. That sounds best for you and your own safety. O.o!
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