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Post by athena167 on Feb 13, 2011 23:43:41 GMT -6
I am so tired of the SIL whorship......everyone falls all over her like she is a queen......ugh....at least my family still loves me.....
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Post by dyzzispell on Feb 14, 2011 19:23:30 GMT -6
Psy - I know what you mean. I mean, although it happened back when I was in school, I wasn't aware of too much of it, because I had only a few friends and they weren't doing it either. I have no tolerance for the lack of respect for sex these days. I don't get it.
I did it once with one guy that I never should have. The guy was manipulative and abusive. And somehow I stayed with him for another 2 years after that. What a fool I was.
Anyway, my husband and I never slept together before we were married, although it got close at times. Of course, most people around us don't believe that, but I don't really care. ;D
Athena - To an extent I know what you mean too. Our family has a crazy split in it, where my two older brothers have cut off my mom, me and my younger brother. Apparently we can do no right in their eyes. On top of that, the extended family - all but about 3 members of it - don't really have any use for us either, as a few of them make up rumors about my mother (who knows - maybe about us, too) and then the rest of the family blindly believes them. It's really disheartening.
My vent has already been shared elsewhere, but I'm really furious that I bought a laptop with bad parts in it - a known problem in this line of laptops - and HP refuses to do anything about it. (Of course I didn't know about the bad parts till now.) In the meantime I have 3 weeks of un-backed up data that I am more than anxious to access, but I don't have the right tools to make that happen. Hopefully a couple of friends will be able to help me with that, but who knows at this point...
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Post by Psy ru on Feb 14, 2011 22:30:02 GMT -6
@dyzz- Here Here!!
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Post by Plumeriasmoon on Feb 15, 2011 0:20:40 GMT -6
Thank you, thank you for all your hugs and support. I'm sorry for whining when you guys are having it so rough. I wish I had a magic wand that I could wave and make things better. * big girl hugs for everyone*
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Post by AllyKatt on Feb 15, 2011 17:16:07 GMT -6
Thank you, thank you for all your hugs and support. I'm sorry for whining when you guys are having it so rough. I wish I had a magic wand that I could wave and make things better. * big girl hugs for everyone* it's never whining from you either, hon! venting, sharing, yes. but we're always here!
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Post by athena167 on Feb 17, 2011 23:29:40 GMT -6
My sister in law survived child birth.......all of my in laws survived child birth.....i wish my husband was an orphen.....
we got family portraits done and everyone on his side of the family wants the picture of everyone with my sister in law holding the baby.....not me, my sister in law....as if to give her credit for having the baby instead of me......my husband should have just fucked his sister and left me out of the situation completely......i am so done with my in laws i am praying to god that they die tomorrow........
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Post by dyzzispell on Feb 19, 2011 17:51:55 GMT -6
Athena - I'm so sorry you have so much trouble with your in-laws. There are some people I wish could be on the receiving end of such abuse just so they'd know exactly how it feels when they do it to someone else. As for me, my older brother again just showed how 5-years-old he still is. My younger brother commented on something my niece posted on FB, and my older brother (her father) jumped all over him and called him names again. It's ridiculous. Granted, my younger brother probably shouldn't have said anything at all, but what he did say was harmless anyway. Best part was that after my older brother sailed into him, my younger brother apologized to my niece in case what he said was offensive or taken the wrong way. To me that was the most grown-up response that could be given in that situation. I feel pretty bad for my older brother actually. He's got the mentality of a 5-year-old, but he has a daughter who turns 13 in a few months. The view from here makes it look like the way he raised her so far is going to come back and bite him. He needs to grow up - and quick - or else he's not going to be prepared for what she's going to throw at him. And for her sake as well, I pray that she doesn't get into too much trouble. I want the best for her but I fear for the worst...
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Post by Psy ru on Feb 19, 2011 20:30:08 GMT -6
Again why do i have to suffer with my B.S. friends (short for Bitter sweet) and they do spout BS to me too =__= I literally just got a home an hour ago from this. So being that I live near Mall of America, to day my friend invited me to the mall and it was supposed to be the four of us, me and my other 3 friends. But one of my friend recently got a bf- SO right now shes still in the honeymoon phase with him. So now theres five of us, but to make it even we invite my close friend I've known forever (the one i vented about before, but now we r friends again), so now its even number- 6 of us. We were going to the malls amusement park and have fun, but me being the pessimist of the group i knew i would have a good time- and i was right. Part of it was due to excluding me and other things but heres the main story. We go to the food court and eat, but after a while my friend bf says he has to leave, so my friend goes up to the place he has to leave and sees him off. Soon after we get a call from her saying oh man the guards are around i cant go anywhere. So we head up there find her and her bf is till there. In my mind im just like why are you still here you said you had to go right now when you left!!?, besides that im furious. But after that my friend comes up with plans on how to avoid the guards and the plan called for saying oh we're waiting for our guardian to show up (aka my mom giving us a ride home) And im just like well now i want to go home, and my friend keeps asking why and i keep saying i just want to go home 'cause now its just getting to complicated to avoid the guards, so i call my mom and have her and my dad come pick me up. Theres more information along the lines why im more angry at them now, but i wont go into detail with that. The point right now is that I've let go of it and moved on. Its now 8:26 and i dont know if they're still at the mall at the amusement park or getting caught. My mom is proud of what i did and i just didnt want to get in trouble.
Thanks so much for putting up with me guys ; u ; <3
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Post by Unger69 on Feb 20, 2011 15:43:27 GMT -6
*hugs everyone*
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Post by dyzzispell on Feb 20, 2011 20:10:26 GMT -6
Several years ago I got an abrasion on my knee in a pool. I was a little worried that it might get infected, so I kept it covered with Neosporin on it practically all the time. I noticed that as it was healing it was starting to itch. A lot. No big deal, except that I don't scratch itchy scrapes - I rub them. Strangely enough I rub them enough to cause blisters and burns. (Yeah I know, sounds crazy.)
Anyway, I found after that that very often if I got a cut or scratch and covered it and used Neosporin, it would get terribly itchy. So I did a test and found that I'm allergic to the Neosporin. So I tried using the cream instead, but now it's starting to look like I'm allergic to the cream and the bandaids now, too. I've even tried latex-free bandaids and it still gets all rashy. Perhaps I'm allergic to the adhesive?
But I can't not cover them, because they tend to get all inflamed and infected if I don't. Darn it, why of all things to be allergic to...?!
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Post by Plumeriasmoon on Feb 26, 2011 1:21:32 GMT -6
Today was my niece's 9th birthday. I picked out and and wrapped all the presents, decorated the dining room with a banner and balloons, baked and decorated the cakes, cooked dinner and cleaned up everything.
All my sister had to do was make sure she was here. All she had to do was celebrate her daughters' birthday. But no. She has dissappeared again. She's not answering her phone and there's no way that I have to find her.
I can't believe she did this. I can't believe she skipped out on her daughter that way. Not being there for hers and Angel's surgeries was one thing, now this?
I beginning to believe she will never pull her head out of her ass and be a mother to her kids. And I'm growing tired of her lies and excuses.
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Post by athena167 on Feb 28, 2011 19:48:31 GMT -6
im so sorry plumey! that must be tough......who is taking care of her kids at the moment?
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Post by Plumeriasmoon on Mar 2, 2011 0:23:54 GMT -6
Thank you so much. I'm taking care of the kids. I have since the day they were born. I was there when each of them were born and even cut their umbilical cords. I love them with all my heart.
My sister is just so lost. I told her she needs to find her way back because her kids are waiting for her. I know she loves her kids very much. She just can't seem to see just how much they love her and forgive her anything.
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Post by dyzzispell on Mar 8, 2011 12:09:25 GMT -6
Hey Plume, I hope things get better for you and the family soon. So I want to know something. Why is it that there are a lot of women who think that when you hurt or offend them, that they don't need to tell you what it was that you did to hurt them? That they think you should just KNOW what you did? I don't get it. Worse yet, you reach out and try to talk with someone who hasn't talked to you in a while, and they decide that YOU have a problem with their friendship, and they just cut you off with no explanation? At least give me a little respect and tell me what I did before you cut me off. Why is that too much to ask? Oh, and the flooding is getting bad out here again, and we're due for more rain (of course). I'm never going to get this place sold with so much news coverage of the rising rivers...
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Post by AllyKatt on Mar 8, 2011 13:42:26 GMT -6
it's raining here today, as well - but not flooding kind of rain. it seldom if ever really floods down here, which is really nice. still, though, the rainy weather does a number on me.
*HUGS* all around!
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