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Post by Plumeriasmoon on Oct 1, 2010 0:17:50 GMT -6
I was walking down memory lane and it inspired me to ask this.I haven't been on a actual date,more like blind nightmares.Such as one of my sisters setting me up with someone who left me waiting for 3 1/2 hours,then showed up after hunting with his buddies with a dead deer tied to the back of his car,wearing the same clothes he went hunting in,covered in blood and 2 dead roses as a form of apology.I slammed the door in his face.Others include one guy who couldn't stop talking about his ex girlfriend and then informed me he had the hots for my younger sister,a guy who within 5 minutes of meeting me wanted to take me to rural Tennesssee and keep me locked up and pregnant,a guy who suggested a threesome between me,him and his wife,a guy who suggested a threesome between me,him,and my SISTER,and the last one who didn't believe in personal hygiene.I told my family members if they tried playing match maker again,I would stop talking to them.So,bad dates anyone?
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Post by Unger69 on Oct 1, 2010 6:40:41 GMT -6
I've never had a bad date, but I've had rather horrid break ups. So I was dating this guy for a few months. He was really cool and I met him through his sister. So I get this phone call from him saying he's going to be out of town for a while and he will let me know when he gets back and such. A day later I get a call from his sister saying he was shot and on the verge of dying. A few hours later, he died. I was really depressed and heartbroken. I found a good guy for once and how he's dead. Well I had to go get some stuff for my mom, so I went to Walmart and down one of the isles was a familiar face. It was him. He lived. Best part? He was with this girl I had never seen before. He went to go look at something so I approached the girl and chatted with her for a bit but told her to "be careful, he might die on you." And was about to leave when he came and noticed me. So I smiled and chatted a little and mentioned how it felt like he died on me. Then I figured it was time to leave and actually get what I needed, so I said goodbye and as I was walking away I could hear her ask him about dying on her. It made me smile.
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Post by valeria_tatsumi on Oct 1, 2010 7:33:01 GMT -6
I've never had a bad date, but I've had rather horrid break ups. So I was dating this guy for a few months. He was really cool and I met him through his sister. So I get this phone call from him saying he's going to be out of town for a while and he will let me know when he gets back and such. A day later I get a call from his sister saying he was shot and on the verge of dying. A few hours later, he died. I was really depressed and heartbroken. I found a good guy for once and how he's dead. Well I had to go get some stuff for my mom, so I went to Walmart and down one of the isles was a familiar face. It was him. He lived. Best part? He was with this girl I had never seen before. He went to go look at something so I approached the girl and chatted with her for a bit but told her to "be careful, he might die on you." And was about to leave when he came and noticed me. So I smiled and chatted a little and mentioned how it felt like he died on me. Then I figured it was time to leave and actually get what I needed, so I said goodbye and as I was walking away I could hear her ask him about dying on her. It made me smile. wow now THAT'S a story! xD I'm impressed of your reaction
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Post by avyquinn on Oct 1, 2010 7:51:11 GMT -6
I've never had a bad date, but I've had rather horrid break ups. So I was dating this guy for a few months. He was really cool and I met him through his sister. So I get this phone call from him saying he's going to be out of town for a while and he will let me know when he gets back and such. A day later I get a call from his sister saying he was shot and on the verge of dying. A few hours later, he died. I was really depressed and heartbroken. I found a good guy for once and how he's dead. Well I had to go get some stuff for my mom, so I went to Walmart and down one of the isles was a familiar face. It was him. He lived. Best part? He was with this girl I had never seen before. He went to go look at something so I approached the girl and chatted with her for a bit but told her to "be careful, he might die on you." And was about to leave when he came and noticed me. So I smiled and chatted a little and mentioned how it felt like he died on me. Then I figured it was time to leave and actually get what I needed, so I said goodbye and as I was walking away I could hear her ask him about dying on her. It made me smile. wow now THAT'S a story! xD I'm impressed of your reaction Seconded!!!
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Post by AllyKatt on Oct 1, 2010 10:22:14 GMT -6
i don't really "date" that much - i am more of the type that meets people socially and then jumps into a relationship with one of them. *LOL*
but, i haven't done that in awhile, either.
my worst would be a breakup, too. i dated a psychopath back in college {i didn't KNOW he was a psychopath until after, of course}. it was the worst relationship, ever. i'd never had a boyfriend lie to me, cheat on me, etc before, so i had NO idea what was going on for the longest time. then, when i left him {after 3 years, because yeah - i'm that stupid}, he decided to become obsessed with me and stalk me.
i *WISH* i could say "the end" at that point, but no ... it still goes on, and it's been over 10 years since i dumped him. i mostly try to ignore it, unless he does something really freaking creepy on the internet {where most of the stalking takes place} - then i print it out and give it to the local cops, and they add it to the file...
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Post by avyquinn on Oct 1, 2010 10:52:59 GMT -6
it's been over 10 years since i dumped him. i mostly try to ignore it, unless he does something really freaking creepy on the internet {where most of the stalking takes place} - then i print it out and give it to the local cops, and they add it to the file... Oh my. He needs some help, as they say. XD Moi aussi! Although at one point when I was dating frequently and lots at the same time, I had a disclaimer I would give. 'I'm seeing other people and cannot/will not be exclusive with you, I hope you're ok with that... etc etc.' XD XD
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Post by dyzzispell on Oct 1, 2010 11:14:08 GMT -6
Yeah I never really "dated", just started relationships, too...
So I never really dated people from my high school except one, but there was one guy Carlos who was kind of obsessed with me...
I met this guy at a Bible group - he was a year younger than me and liked me. He asked if I'd be his girlfriend, and I told him I needed to get to know him as a friend first.
He brought me to his youth group - which consisted of all guys. He came over my house I think once and brought his Sega Genesis to play Sonic with us. (We were a Nintendo household. XD) Then after like 2 times hanging out he says, "Ok you know me now. NOW can we date?"
Truth was, I didn't like him that way. He was nice and all but there was nothing there for me. Well he decided he was going to marry me and he'd kill himself if he couldn't have me.
Stupid me, I became friends with his best friend and leaned on him a bit. Too much, actually, as we started dating. When Carlos found out - at the youth group, mind you - he started throwing things all over the place. Like chairs and stuff.
I broke up with the best friend after like 2 weeks, when I figured out he just wanted to pick up with me where he left off with his last girlfriend. (Youth pastor told us not to date non-Christians, so he broke up with her and started with me.)
Anyway, sometime later I started dating one of the other guys in the group. One night in that group, everyone was keeping their distance from me and being very secretive - including the guy I was dating at the time. Found out later that Carlos had written a story about me and the guy I was dating, where we both got killed - and he was the one who killed us. With his bare hands. Needless to say, it freaked me out a bit.
I don't remember what happened after that, but it was around then that I started going to the roller rink where I'd eventually meet my husband, and I started getting interested in the guys there instead of the youth group. It was better for Carlos not to know anything about my love life anyway.
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 1, 2010 21:24:45 GMT -6
This thread is the best thread, EVER!!!! One of my favorite past times is reading about other people's awful dating experiences, and I've read some DOOOZIEs. Sorry to delight in this, but I can't help it...*evillaugh*
@unger: Wow, really? Really? Your boyfriend was such a coward, that he FAKED HIS OWN DEATH just to get out of his relationship with you?!! I've never heard of such a thing before. You poor dear... But, you handled that very well. I'm just surprised he didn't leave town and didn't realize he'd get caught so easily... hurr-durr...
@plumey: Yours are pretty interesting stories, too, hun! 3somes, eh? That's pretty sickening... And, the deer hunter slob sounded pretty pathetic as well. I'd have done more than just slam the door in his face...
@ally: I feel so bad for you having a stalker for so many years... *hugs* That totally sucks. I know I'd be paranoid to the extreme and not be able to lead a normal life if I had a stalker. Can't imagine that going on for more than 10 years in a row...
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I've never had super awful dating experiences. The worst date I went on, I just wish I had turned the car around and left him at our meeting place. It wasn't the worst thing in the world, but it was pretty darn crappy of a date, for several hours in a row.
I also had a boyfriend dump me for his newest best guy friend, and he wasn't even gay... My boyfriend wasn't, anyway... Supposedly, his new BFF wasn't either... just skeezy. I lost out to a burgeoning new BROmance...
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Post by Plumeriasmoon on Oct 1, 2010 23:31:33 GMT -6
Whoa.I feel horrible for starting this thread now.I just wanted to share some of my stories.I just found it strange that people think they know what you want better than you do (I now run screaming when someone says "I've got the perfect guy for you!").I've never been in a relationship nor have I been intimate with anyone.I didn't mean to bring back such bad memories.I'm sorry,guys.
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 2, 2010 0:44:01 GMT -6
Whoa.I feel horrible for starting this thread now.I just wanted to share some of my stories.I just found it strange that people think they know what you want better than you do (I now run screaming when someone says "I've got the perfect guy for you!").I've never been in a relationship nor have I been intimate with anyone.I didn't mean to bring back such bad memories.I'm sorry,guys. Oh, you didn't do anything wrong, plumey!! I know if I didn't like your thread, I wouldn't have even replied at all. I know for me, it's kind of fun to talk about these things because it's all funny, now that it's all in the past. So, don't feel bad about anything. You wanted to talk about them, so it makes sense that others would want to talk about them, as well.
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Post by avyquinn on Oct 2, 2010 2:30:26 GMT -6
Oh, you didn't do anything wrong, plumey!! I know if I didn't like your thread, I wouldn't have even replied at all. I know for me, it's kind of fun to talk about these things because it's all funny, now that it's all in the past. So, don't feel bad about anything. You wanted to talk about them, so it makes sense that others would want to talk about them, as well. *nods in agreement*
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Post by dyzzispell on Oct 2, 2010 9:43:37 GMT -6
Totally agree with you guys! You know how it's been said, "One day we'll look back on this and laugh"? Yeah, I'm definitely laughing. XD
The other thing I didn't tell you guys was about Carlos' best friend Chris that I had started dating in the middle of it. I mean, I mentioned him, but he's a story all his own.
So, like I said, our youth pastor told us we shouldn't date non-Christians. Chris was dating one and knew I sort of liked him. So he broke up with her and asked me out. But I was really really shy back then, and I didn't kiss just anyone. It took me a while to warm up to the idea. (Now that I think about it, the other kid I dated that Carlos wrote the story about - I think I dated him for like 2 or 3 months and never kissed him once.)
ANYWAY. So Chris kept trying to get me in a room alone at the church where the youth group was meeting. I kept running away. I knew what he wanted, and I wasn't ready for it. So after about 2 weeks, I broke up with him. He was very angry, and told me on the phone, "It's like you put 25 cents in the arcade game and then walked away! It's stupid!" To which I responded, "But maybe after I put my money in, I saw what kind of game it was and decided I didn't like it afterall."
After that, he got kind of abusive. He'd fight with me after school and make a fool of me. Threw me on the ground once, if I remember right. Well at that point I got it in my head that I was going to get him back somehow, even though I was afraid of him.
So one night at youth group, he was muttering on about something that made him better than me, and he was distracted by the sound of his own awesomeness or something. So I said, "Oh really?", walked up to him and leg swiped him, dropping him to the floor exactly the same way Chun Li does in Street Fighter. Right there in front of all his friends. It was an awesome feeling for me, embarassing him like that after all the stuff he'd done to me. He was soooo angry. And his friends congratulated me. (Why they didn't help me when he was hurting me, who knows.)
Right after that, I started dating a guy who was 6'10" and wore a long coat with spikes on the shoulder, so Chris kept his distance from that point on. (Nevermind that this guy turned out to be abusive too, just not in the same obvious way that Chris was.)
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Post by Kyashi on Oct 2, 2010 22:52:20 GMT -6
Wow, you go dyzz!! You leg-swiped your stupid boyfriend back then?? That's awesome. You've got gutz...
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Post by athena167 on Dec 30, 2010 19:24:53 GMT -6
I was with this guy, who in the end just added to the host of issues i have but we will get to that another time.....we went ass a group date to a midnight movie in the bad section of town and after he ignored me the entire movie, he left me and a friend at the theater at 2 am, i had to call my mother to pick us up......this was around the same time that i bought him an 80 dollar christmas present and not gotten anything in return....he spend most of our time dated grounded because he was a piece of work, he was allowed to spend new years with either me or his friends from middle school......he spent it with his friends......so with me, it wasnt one date, it was a bunch......then with another guy i was invited to Reno with his family then his mother hanged her mind and tried to uninvite me, my parents raised hell and i got to go. In Reno, his mother left for 5 minutes to go to the grocery store and came back 2 hours later, drunk, with some guy she didnt know......i have been on some real doozies.......and dont even get me started on my in laws......
I too was abused, before the two guys mentioned abovei dated a guy who had emotional issues and anyone who knows me, knows i am very much a person who becomes friends with the lonley person because have a huge heart and honestly feel no one should be alone. He played off of this sympthy and slowly broke me down so i would never leave. then he got possesive and started stalking me....god forbid i talk to my best friend (who would later leave me at the theater at 2 am) and he would either scream at me publically or give me the silent treatment and there was only one way to get him to forgive me.....yep...you guessed it. And then he would pressure me.....once he even shoved me across the hallway at school in front of everyone......i was 15 an 16. He messed me up big time, i have never been the same since. As a result, I am now a mild Erotophobe when it comes to men......it made things difficult.....
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Post by Kyashi on Dec 30, 2010 20:08:17 GMT -6
Oh, wow, those are some pretty seriously bad dating experiencing, Athena. I love hearing about bad dating stories so I can laugh, but I'm not laughing at you, that's for sure. I hope you can heal in time, now that you have a good guy to be with in your life.... *hug* ;D
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